"Effective communication is 20% what you know and 80% how you feel about what you know." - Jim Rohn

Have you ever heard the phrase "communication is key"? It means that if you want to have a good, healthy relationship with someone, you need to communicate with them. I always knew this was essential but after attending my family relations class this week, it now holds a deeper meaning for me. There were many point is class that we discussed and I would like to bring them up.

1st- In relationships you have to bilingual. One thing you say could mean something entirely different to your spouse/partner. Everyone grew up in different families, living in different backgrounds. To one person something might me good and fun, to another it could be horrible and dangerous. You never know how others will interpret what you say, so you need to say everything clearly without making a misunderstanding.

2nd- Say what you mean and mean what you say. People cant read minds and giving them hints doesn't work.

Finally, if you need help with marital communication, these bullet points should help:

• Discuss the way you spend your income.
• Discuss work and interests with each other.
• Express your feelings with each other.
• Avoid saying things that irritate each other.
• Have pleasant mealtime conversations.
• Listen to each other.
• Support each other.
• Communicate affection and regard.
• Avoid the silent treatment.
• Confide in each other.